I think that, for the most part, there is one major reason that people lie. They do so to save their own hides, or the hides of those they care about. Sometimes they lie to create an illusion of who they are. Sometimes they lie to protect their inner world from collapsing. But mostly it […]
Inviting Energy
People are often surprised when I tell them about the difference between pushing energy and inviting energy. I think what surprises them the most is how I speak about their energy system as having its own consciousness. But of course we each have our own energy and our own consciousness and that individual consciousness (even […]
Great Expectations
I have often shared stories and wisdoms regarding how important it is to have healthy boundaries in relationships. I have also shared stories and wisdoms regarding the differences between obligations and responsibilities. There is nothing that I have written in any of those blogs that I do not still hold as true. Sometimes, however, one […]
Can’t Judge a Book
Way back in the mid “80’s I enjoyed clubbing with my friends, just like most young people do. I was in my early 20’s and I loved to dance. So the club scene was something I found very appealing. People who know me now would not recognize me. I had hair…a LOT of hair. Long, […]
The Shunning
Not “the shining,” but “the shunning.” I have written before regarding aspects of abuse and coping mechanisms. What I have not yet touched upon is the act of shunning as a form of abuse. In ancient times it would take something pretty drastic to have the community shun you. Something along the lines of adultery […]