Believe it or not, there are some folks in the world who actually believe that things that bring us pleasure are not worthy of our time or attention! I know! I was surprised to discover this as well. There was a person in University that I encountered who was brought up in a very strict […]
The Shunning
Not “the shining,” but “the shunning.” I have written before regarding aspects of abuse and coping mechanisms. What I have not yet touched upon is the act of shunning as a form of abuse. In ancient times it would take something pretty drastic to have the community shun you. Something along the lines of adultery […]
Upside Down, Backwards and Naked
I often think that we live in a world that is backwards. Compassion and empathy are often drilled out of us as children and we have to work at regaining our humanity over time. There was a time that guns were made to aid in war efforts. Now wars are begun so that manufacturers can […]
Balance
Balance. People talk a LOT about balance and how to achieve it. For some it is about delegating tasks instead of doing it all yourself. For others, it is about planning extensive holidays from their busy professional lives. For others still, it is about spending more quality time with friends and family. Not a lot […]
That Which We Cannot Escape
People spend a lot of time trying to look pretty, handsome, sexy, and youthful. All of this is completely ego based. I say that as I do my best to keep my weight down. For me, this is not just cosmetic. It is essential for my well-being, as I am diabetic. For the most part, […]